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I would like to invite you to do an exercise today I call 'complimenting forward´. Here is how it works: Notice compliments: pay specific attention to any compliment you get, no matter how small or implicit Accept compliments: accept compliments thankfully. Don’t be modest, don’t deny you did a good thing Compliment forward: for each compliment you receive today, compliment two other people yourself (on this same day) Pay attention to what happens… and if you like it, keep on doing it Compliments are underrated Compliments are possibly the most underrated social tool we have. All of us hunger for recognition and a compliment offers just this. If done right, a good compliment provides the kind of feedback that helps us become aware of just which of our behaviors are effective. On top of that a compliment shows there is somebody who who pays attention to you and cares for you. A good compliment can really make your day! Yet most of us find it very hard to give and receive compliment...